Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Teman

Hari ini kau bergelar teman,
Suka-duka dan gelak-ketawa kita bersama,
Tapi esok lusa bila diriku dalam kesusahan,
Adakah kau akan berada di sisiku untuk mengongsinya?

You know, it's really sad when you start to decipher the true natures of your friends. The ones who'd be the firsts to be there when times are good, and the lasts when times are bad. The ones who'd take advantage of you as they see fit. The ones who only think about themselves instead of being considerate towards what you have to endure. And the ones who are simply ungrateful of all the things you've done for them.

Maybe the issue has always been sincerity. It has got to be either that, or their definition of friendship is thoroughly different from mine. Sometimes I get upset when they abuse the friendship, but most of the time I'm just sad over the way things have turned out to be. But it's fine. They will always be what they are, and I will always be what I am. The friend who'll always wear a smile on his face, even when his threshold is scraped... Because on this end, it grew out of sincerity.

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Assalamualaikum,

Irfan, your writings show how sensitive a person you are and that I am happy to say, is a hallmark of a good friend and a great man. I am sure that there are many out there who share the same view. How very right also is your opinion that all intention must begin with sincerity.

Irfan Shai said...

Waalaikumsalam,

thanx for the feedback. i never meant to distinguish myself into any type of a friend. just that i needed to let it out somewhere, it just gets tiring sometimes. after all, i am only human. perhaps subconsciously i think that writing about it can help alleviate the sadness.

thanx again! =)

freezethebreeze said...

gaya cam the dad je yang give comment haha

Irfan Shai said...

hahaha... dunno lah... weh, kau bapa lama lg habis? lost count jap...

freezethebreeze said...

habes? 1 year? aku balik besok cuti 1 week. apahal ar?

Irfan Shai said...

alamak... timing kau cuti tak cun la! aku pulak bz nak finals! i'll be done with everything by mid of next mth...